Hello Reader,
December was a rollercoaster, as it often is. And now we’re into January! As the holiday season unfolds, it’s a time of joy—but also a time of challenges, especially for those navigating ADHD or managing energy through illness.
Self-Management During Illness:
Biggest drama for me of the holiday season. I got sick… For 2.5 weeks.*cue annoyed look* Right when I finally had the plans and energy to do *holiday* things.
Illness can disrupt even the best-laid plans. When our energy dips, it’s essential to shift focus to what truly matters. Here are some tips I’ve found helpful:
- Prioritize Health First: It’s okay to let go of non-essential commitments. Focusing on healing ensures you’re ready to tackle future challenges.
- Set Three Priorities a Day: Write down the top three things you need to accomplish—big or small. Give yourself permission to let the rest wait.
- Use a Timer for Rest & Work: Set a timer for 15-20 minutes of activity, then take a short break. This keeps momentum while avoiding overexertion.
Practicing Interoception:
For many of us, understanding our internal cues—like hunger, fatigue, or stress—can be tricky. This skill, known as interoception, is worth cultivating:
- Pause to Listen: Take a moment to check in with your body. Ask, “What do I need right now?”
- Small Adjustments Matter: Adjusting your schedule to honor these signals can prevent burnout and improve focus.
Intentionally Implement External Structure:
ADHD brains thrive on external cues. When internal motivation feels out of reach, the external structure can offer the nudge we need. Here’s how to incorporate it:
- Anchor Your Day with Meetings: Informal check-ins or co-working sessions provide a sense of time and accountability.
1. Create a Morning Anchor Meeting
- What it is: A short virtual or in-person meeting to start your day.
- How it helps: It gives your day an official “start time” and a clear focus.
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Ideas to try:
- Join a free virtual co-working group (look for ADHD-specific groups for extra camaraderie).
- Pair with a friend to share goals for the day in a quick 10-minute call.
- Bookend Tasks: Plan small actions before and after meetings to create clear start and stop points in your day.
2. Use Meetings as Productivity Boosters
- What it is: Treat scheduled meetings as bookends for tasks.
- How it helps: Knowing you have limited time before or after a meeting can spark focus.
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Ideas to try:
- Plan to work on a high-priority task for 30 minutes before the meeting starts.
- After the meeting, take 5 minutes to jot down key takeaways and next steps before switching gears.
Quick Wins for Routine Even a loose structure can make a big difference amidst the holiday chaos. Here are some small habits to try:
- Keep a “parking lot” list for ideas and to-dos that pop up while you’re focused on other tasks.
- End each day by jotting down one accomplishment and one intention for tomorrow.
Reflection and Next Steps
As we head into a new year, I invite you to reflect:
- What’s one external structure you could add to your week?
- How might you adjust your routines to better support your energy and focus?
What’s one thing you’d like to try this week? I’d love to hear your thoughts—feel free to reply to this email!
Wishing you a season of health, joy, and self-discovery.
Coach Amy
ADHD and Wellness Coach